Bleeding from loss of virginity or period?

I had sex for the first time about three hours ago. It was painful for me so he didn’t penetrate all the way and we stopped. I just went to the bathroom and there was blood when I wiped. A pretty good amount. But I wiped until it was gone. Now, my period is 41 days late. I’m not sure if the bleeding was from the attempt at sex or it jumpstarted my period or coincidentally my period just came right now. If you have bleeding after your first time, is it usually just a few drops of blood? That’s what I thought but this was quite a bit so I think it might be my period. Any ideas?