Baby name drama! Am I overreacting?!
I hate my baby’s chosen name. His name will be Adrian. When me and my bf met we both had one child from our previous relationships. By coincidence, we were both going to name our kids Adrian the first time but both went with different names, mine was a girl and his they just picked something else. We then agreed that if we ever had a boy, his name would be Adrian. Now that we are having a boy, and I’m 7 months, my feelings have changed. I do not want to name him Adrian but that’s all he dreams about. He says he loves the name so much and nothing else feels right to him, and honestly, nothing feels right to me either, not even Adrian. I just had a change of heart as time passed, realizing that it’s a name him and his ex may have come up with together. On my end, my first daughters dad was not involved in my pregnancy, so the name I had thought of myself. I have a lot of unresolved issues with his ex because of a big problem we had at the beginning of mine and his relationship, so things have never been friendly between she and I. I just do not want to name my son something that she may have decided on with my bf in the past. They ended up naming their son Jaden, but I don’t want that name despite the fact that it was my dream baby boy name before. This is my first son, and I want him to be a junior, but he refuses because he feels bad that his oldest son he rarely sees and he doesn’t want him to feel sad or “left out”. Am I being irrational? 😔 Adrian was my dream name, but now that I am pregnant my heart changed and I don’t want it. It’s gotten to the point where I have looked up a million nick names Bcus we can’t agree on an alternative name. I just want to know if I am being crazy or overreacting.
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