so I've gone out with this guy several times. He's wanting to continue our relationship and try dating seriously, but I've told him we can't because he doesn't have papers. anyway he is wanting to have sex and he will get a room for us (I live with a roommate). I want to (I personally dont believe that it's necessary to wait for marriage), but I'm afraid that we would both just be more attached. I dont have strong feelings for him and I think that's best given his situation. so I'm torn what I should do. what do you ladies think?