Was it selfish?

I'm asking because you people WILL tell me if I am fucking selfish

There is a guy who swore up and down that I was THE ONE for him.

Yeah yeah, okay. So I give it a go with him.

Our past goes way back, back to being 11 years old and having school crushes.

He was the first little shit to break my heart for real. That's years ago, I don't remember it well.

Anyways, after giving it a shot i broke it off.

Were my reasonings selfish?

Reasons:

1. He's rude to his mom. Just a total jerk to her sometimes which is so NOT COOL. There was one night where he literally told her to SHUT UP. I was like "DONT TALK TO HER LIKE THAT? THE HELL? THATS YOUR MOM." And I had no idea where it came from and he got snappy with me and said "well she.."

"NO? 'WELL SHE' NOTHING!" ALL SHE DID WAS ASK HIM TO DO SOMETHING SIMPLE. I literally got up and left. It was the biggest turn off EVER. I was just..no

2. I am not the jealous type, but he would stop talking in the middle of conversations and text people. He told me it was girls, multiple girls. He showed me the texts, he wasn't flirting but THEY were definitely...heart and heart eye imojis and compliments. He wasn't flirting back, but he was entertaining the conversations. Which to me, makes them think the door is still open. They would also send him suggestive pictures. Not nudes, but booty on the counter top type. 🙄

3. He is very, VERY good looking. I mean, we went to the mall once and a girl working there was EYEING HIM. SO HARD.

yo, he eyed her right back. I grabbed some things and asked for a fitting room and she was so rude to me?? Like? What the fuck did I do? And shoved the dressing room door in my face and then started talking to him like? Obviously we are with eachother. AND YES THIS FUCKING HAPPENED.

Tf? If another person is rude to your girl or guy in public, don't be fucking nice to them like if you disrespected my man you disrespected me. You're not nice to him? I'm not nice to you. Make sense? He totally just talked to her all sweet like letting her flirt. That wasn't a huge deal, but it PISSED me off.

4. He was super, SUPER immature.

Didn't have a job, the only reason he had a car was because his dad bought him one. Didn't really have motivation for shit.

5. I had already considered ending it. I'm not the type to go through your phone but.. guilty 🙋🏻 he had sex videos and nudes of his ex. When I confronted him, his response was "oh I just forgot to delete those" Yaaaaaaa.

I just felt like he wasn't ready for the type of relationship that I was ready for.

Entertaining other girls? Rude to your momma? No job or motivation? Boy. Bye.

So that's what I did. I broke it off, crushed his heart into a thousand tiny pieces.

Does all of this make me selfish? He made me feel SO, SO guilty. Said I was the biggest let down of his life.

He told me I was selfish and if I was this selfish then he agreed we shouldn't be together