{I’m going to try to make this as short as I can}

Basically, I made an agreement with the guy I’m talking to , to be friends with benefits & get to know eachother. So since we met all we do is have sex and just kinda chill together THATS IT. So, there’d be days he wouldn’t want to have sex, just talk and smoke ect. So fast forward , now it’s been almost 2 months and I’ve caught feelings for him. He spends the night at my house for days at a time , he cooks for me, takes me out to eat , puts gas in my car and also drives like 40 minutes to see me everyday.

SO THIS IS THE PART I NEED HELP! We finally discussed our feelings for eachother and he says he caught feelings for me too but isn’t ready for a relationship. So the next day I’m with him , I ask to just have sex with him and he’s like “I love it, but I don’t want us to be just all about sex” ... soooo he doesn’t want to be in a relationship... and as far as fwb , he doesn’t want to be all about sex... but he literally treats me like he’s my boyfriend... wtf is happening 😩 I don’t understand what’s going on 😭 I don’t know how to proceed with this😩

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Extra details:

Pros — He sends me GM messages, talks about me to his friends and introduced me to them. Helps me around the house ect.

Cons — Still uses dating apps [tinder, pof], He says he just got out of a long relationship and he lost his job so that was his reason for not wanting a relationship.

Random— He was suicidal and smoking cigs when I met him but stopped smoking completely once we got close and he’s happy all the time now.