So I lost my virginity about 3 years ago. I just have a thought that keeps bothering me. So I expected to bleed because you know the whole deal with “popping the cherry” well I didn’t get anything. My boyfriend then, now my fiancé, would finger me before, but nothing to aggressive I just remember it hurting a lot.

So my question is, did any of you bleed after your first time? Or was there nothing for you too?