My bf and I️ have been together for almost 2 years. When we first started dating I️ was in the process of buying my first house, by myself. After a couple of months of being together he broke up with me because he felt it was “too much” for him to deal with. Given he had Hug broken up with his ex of 10 years about 3-4 months before we started dating.

I️ got over it and was super happy with my newly purchased house and new puppy. So I️ started dating again and he found out about it and wanted to get back together.

So we did.

After one year of being together and basically one year after being in my house, we talked about moving in together but he did not want to move into my house cause he said was too small for him (2b/2b). I️ conceded and rented my house fully furnished and moved in with him.

Now after months of living together, things aren’t going as well as we expected. We barely have sex. He says he’s tired all the time and he just doesn’t feel it. Not like he was full of passion before but he would at least try more often.

He knows how important my security and house safety is and one day we got into a really bad argument and he started taking about moving out. I️ had to just walk away because I️ couldn’t believe he had just said that to me.

A week later, we’re trying to fix things over and he says to me, “if you’re still here Dec 28th” which was only a couple months away at the time.

Now, I️ tell him he broke my heart but he says he didn’t mean it. Idk if he’s just settling for me because his ex left him and he needs to settle down. Or if I’m over reacting and just need to get over it.

Please help!!