If I heard it once I heard it a dozen times "Do you want to have kids?" "Will you guys start trying soon?" "Have you been trying?"

Babies are truly miracles, and I'm more than happy to ooooo and ahhhh over all of your baby stories. But, I really think people need to be more cautious in asking these questions. If I haven't seen you in years and didn't bring it up to you myself... it's probably none of your business.