my BF of 4 years.... is letting stupidly small things get to him. predominantly, the fact that I suck at shooter games... it's tearing us apart. he want me to be at pro levels and dedicate my life to this so I can be a better squad mate. I like gaming don't get me wrong, but it's not the center of my life.... this has caused many many stupid fights. so my question is, how do you know when its time to let go? I love him so much, and just typing this hurts so bad. but i feel like I'm leading him on.... I want him to be happy in the end. he deserves better than this