Belly flop SEX

Charity

Ok, so I have had 2 cesareans, my last one was September 25th. I have a belly flap and I'm very self conscious about it when having Sex, my partner is fine with it and tells me I'm sexy. But its hard to feel sexy with a kangaroo pouch flapping around. I just got cleared to work out again, last time it took about 1.5 years for it to get back to normal. Any suggestions on how to deal with it would be great.