*someone please give me advice*

I’m a ftm. And I want to know how day care works, or how getting a baby sitter works. Because I’m going to have to get a job to help my SO out. My younger brother is being placed into my home because it is the most suitable place for him because my mothers isn’t suitable. We only have one vehicle, my SO works night shift and I guess when I get a job it will be during the day. I’m 21 and I’ve never had a job. I don’t what it’s like to work. And I’m scared. I have social anxiety and I never really leave the house. I just need someone to give me advice because I’m lost.