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hello, my name is tiffany, I am 21 and my lovely so is 40. we have been married for 4 years and have been ttc for about 3 years on and off. We had been the the process of adopting when the birth mother came and got her before papers where signed (6 months we had her). we stopped ttc when we got her in december but decided this month that it is time to start ttc again while we save money (we spent all saved money in the little bundle if joy) for fertility treatments. He is in a wheelchair and has been for about 20 years so the doctor says it would take us longer that 'normal' couples.