Spicing things up ??

So what do y’all do to spice things up ? I realized lately that I’ve been so depressed i cant even enjoy sex , I️ fake it all the way through . And ya know my I’ve never been that it’s always been “too much” for me because he’s always wanting to do knew things and I’m not enjoying anything . So i don’t know if any one else is vet feels this way but idk can someone help me with some tips or like anything please