Scared to break my hymen during sex

Look people probably clicked on this to tell me that your hymen doesn’t break, that it’s actually membrane around the outside. But that’s not always the case, there’s different types of hymens, as shown in this pic

So I have a septate hymen which means that if I have penetrative sex it will be excruciatingly painful for me until the hymen snaps... however this can lead to infection and I’m worried it could cause PID which can cause infertility. Just wondering if anyone has any advice at all? Or personal stories or suggestions?