Adding To The List Of Fears

After losing a child, making the decision to TTC was difficult all on its own. The only thing that crossed my mind at the time was having another baby. But then it occurred to me that what if things dont go as planned.......................... What if it taking months or years before we conceive again? What lose another child? What we never have another child? What if i don't connect with our new baby? What if the new baby comes out exactly like the one we lost? What if? What if? What if? I'm think I'm driving myself insane!!! And they tell us not to stress?!?!