Bedroom Advice

So my husband and I just had sex and he usually uses his fingers for a few and gets me off doing that and then we get to business and when we do he gets off fast and then we stop. But tonight was different because it took me awhile to get in the mood. Its always the same position everytime we do it cuz he wont try new things. I had to think about a friend to get turned on more. I never had to do that before. Does that make me a bad wife?