Any ideas to motivate husband?

Sam • A stillbirth at 23 weeks. A chemical when I tested too soon. Mama to a perfect little 38 weeker and ready for number 2..

I can't seem to get my hubs motivated to try to improve his count (3 mil with 63% immotile). Or to pursue his urologists suggested varicocele repair.

I've had two pregnancies neither resulting in a live birth. Hubs thinks we should just put it in God's hands but I know we need to do more. How can I get him to do more without being a naggy wife?