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Suzie ..love and light to u. my name is Shannon. That would b an amazing thing if you would allow me to do that for you. please pm me. 5708177555
Anyone willing to be my surrogate?
Hi all. I'm in need of a surrogate. I've been trying to conceive 10 years. After 5 ivfs 2 frozen transfers and countless IUIs I've been told now that my best bet is to have a surrogate due to intensive scar tissue in my uterus. I've had 3 hysteroscopy and 1 laparoscopy. I live in Long Island New York and the only way is to have a kid is to find a surrogate. I can't afford big agencies but I'm willing to help w everyday a cost like food and cost of meds. I know its a lot to consider and I am already 37 years old. Is there anyone who loves being pregnant and can help us? Me and hubby been together for 18 years. I’m so happy he is sticking thru this and hopefully one day we will get lucky. It’s so hard watching everyone around us with babies and throughout the years they have now grown into awesome young teens. We really want to be parents ☺️. We are a stable working couple with a home waiting for us to fill. 😊😊
Hoping to find a true hearted person willing to grant us our miracle baby.
Thanks for listening
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If I wasn’t already pregnant right nowI always tell my friends and family who want kids and may not be able that I will totally be a surrogate.I wish you luck!Make sure you do a background check on the person you do pick and make sure there is contracts in place. There are kind people are there but there are also crazy ones too!
Ki
I’ve already told my sister in law if her ivf doesn’t work out I have no problem carrying her baby/babies. I know how much she wants more children
je
You’re a really really good person. I hope you are able to do this for someone one day. It’s a beautiful gift and I hope this good karma comes back to you a million times over!
Ki
Out there ***
Nine months of carrying someone else’s kid and ur only willing to pay for every day expenses like travel and meds? That girl is putting her body at risk, going through a very uncomfortable 9 months, and growing your child for you. Cesection scars, vaginal tearing, post partum depression, no coffee or alcohol. The average 50K compensation is barely enough to compensate what she’d have to go through and risk. If you can’t afford it, wait till you can. No one should do this for free or freeish
Is surrogacy legal in ny?
Ca
Paid surrogacy is illegal in NY, altruistic surrogacy is okay but is not considered a legally binding agreement in terms of custody.
Co
https://www.law.com/newyorklawjournal/2018/07/27/0730sscohen-surrogacy-in-new-york-boon-or-bane/?slreturn=20190016225103
Ma
Yes it is I’m going to be carrying for my brother n his husband in two years
How are you doing? Hope you found a surrogate. I’m on the same situation, have 2 embryos frozen but my doctor told me that I cannot carry baby because I have a heart condition. Am recommended for open heart surgery. We cannot afford surrogate but still hoping for miracles. Good luck!
Ja
Hi Tess, unfortunately I don’t have relatives here that can do that. I only migrated here because I married my husband. I already had my open heart surgery but still not allowed to carry a baby. Praying for a miracle.
Te
What about friends or family? Could that be an option? My cousin offered to carry for us.
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