Hey lovelies, I was wondering if you could give me some reassurance. My boyfriend of over a year and I just broke up and I just want reassurance that I'm not crazy. Is it unreasonable for him to make me promise when we were still together not to drink (unless with family and then no more than 1/2 a beer and never even a sip of hard alcohol), no weed ever, no tattoos or smoking. Like I wouldn't necessarily do any of these, but just being restricted seems unreasonable. Do you think it is? It was at the point if I did anything he'd leave me and he did, even though he himself smoked a cigarette after knowing I was against it (though I was nowhere near as controlling as that). You should know that he has anxiety which makes it almost impossible to not worry about these things and me. It would be all the time pestering and it was really a lot. Sorry I'm ranting, but I'm hurt and want validation. Thank you to anyone who actually reads this ❤️😔