My husband picked out the name Lillian...

So my husband picked the name Lillian, like when I first found out I was pregnant. It just kind of stuck. I am now 38 weeks and still can’t think of a middle name that I actually like. Last night he suggested Patricia which is his grandmas name.

I love the idea of naming the middle name after a family member but my problem is I don’t like Patricia and I don’t want to hurt anyone else because I named my daughters middle name after one person and not the others. What would you do?