should we try to fix things

so me and the guy i want to get back together with, we stopped talking yesterday. i cried my eyes out. i really do love him. he looked like he was going to cry. i haven’t ever been in a real relationship and he wouldn’t date me because we were long distance and he said he didn’t want to cheat on me because of having urges to do stuff with ppl because he can’t with me. i’m all honesty i don’t get horny like that but i would try to do stuff with him over video chat. i want to date him i want him to date me. i want him to see that if he dated me stuff would be easier with my parents. he has also gotten me in a lot of trouble with my parents. when i was in 10th grade we were supposed to have sex after or during a movie me being the naive crazy child i am and got caught walking out with him. my mom is now scared i could get raped. and he doesn’t see that it doesn’t effect him it only effects me. he’s coming for thanksgiving should i try to talk to him face to face and work it out or just let it go??