My boyfriend of 8 months just broke up with me today; it sounds so stupid but I don't know how to cope. He said we need to learn to love ourselves before we can love each other. But I somehow blame myself for everything. I know it's not my fault, but how can I cope with a break up that made the worst of days seem great? How do I refrain from blaming myself for something that simply wasn't meant to be from the start?