Rant for today

So I had my appointment today and asked when I could find out what the gender of the baby they told me I have to wait until I'm 20 weeks so they can always see closely how baby is developing since I have a high risk pregnancy due to my diabetes. But they also didn't let me see the baby on the screen or give me a picture, they have changed within two years on how they do stuff. So I'm going to schedule a gender determination appointment for next week cause I'm too impatient to wait 4 weeks.