One thing that i really hate seeing is kids that still have there binky in there mouth at such a old age. i gave my son a binky but as soon as i seen that first tooth come in i took it away and it wasn't hard at all. he was still young like 10 11 months almost 1 he barley cried forgot about it so fast👍🏽 i feel like some people are so lazy and don't want to hear there kid cry so they just pop it in there mouth. 🤦🏽‍♀️every time i see a kid with a binky like ages 2 and up i just want to rip it out lol 😩 another thing is like my son he hates being called a cry baby so thats how i get him to act like a big boy he just turned 4 a couple days ago. and he's been potty trained since the age of 2 , he's a very smart and good boy so when he gets in his little tantrums i say your acting like a cry baby you want me to hold you like a baby? and he hates it he will cry and say I'm not a cry baby I'm a big boy. Or I'm not a cry baby you made me cry if he doesn't get his way. so i tell him don't cry use your words and talk to me about whats wrong your a big boy now Only baby's cry to get there way. And he will tell me why i made him mad ect. I have a friend who has a 4 year old and she lets him be out of control always gets his way by just crying & he's not even potty trained yet 😩 I'm like girl if you don't get him to pee and poop on that toilet 🤦🏽‍♀️ i even offered to help. my son every time he goes to the bathroom he says boys stand up to pee and girls sit down. He Lifts the toilet seat up to pee flushes puts the toilet seat back down and washes his hands 🙂 I mean its not that hard if you just take time with your child & it saves you money no more buying diapers 🤷🏽‍♀️ mind you im a young mother im 21 turn 22 in march so i say anyone can do it if you really TRY with your kid and make them understand 😌