I come home from an 8 hour shift, husband is still asleep, btw this is normal. i get home and I'm not pissy but I'm a tad bit curt I guess. He then goes off the handle like a bat out of hell and screams at me that he hates it when I ignore him and that my sister is stupid becuase we have to take of her cat while she's dealing with a major breakup and the cat keeps him up at night becuase shes bored and put in a closed door room becuase we have 2 other cats, so the cat plays around the room and you can hear it. only seems to bother my husband no one else. But the fact remains he called my sister stupid. then.....Oh then....the asshole says ro me that he is always waiting for when the "one thing" he wants is gonna happen again. which ladies is me putting a penis pump on him and playing with him. it gets him hard he loves it but wants me to want to use it on him. he's very odd in the bedroom might I add, very odd. so he whines like a little bitch about not having his penis put in a pump. I just hate it when he wakes up grumpy. what a fucking asshole !!!! okay rant and venting over