My LOs Father was absent during the last 4 months of my pregnancy, since he left me for someone he met at work, the same place we met, no less. I did not include him in the birth and was only around for 3 consecutive weeks when i did let him know our son was born. The last time he saw our son was 6 months ago when he was 3 months old and doesn’t even bother to reach out anymore. He has 2 older boys who he is active in their life, but has chosen to not be involved in our sons life because the girl he is with is very insecure and doesn’t want him around me. Now, i do NOT want him at ALL! My issue is my dad left when i was about 6 years old, we have since reconnected and he is now my best friend... but my heart hurts so bad for my baby, i know what it’s like to grow up with a dad and i don’t want him to go through what i did. Everyone i know just says, let it go... but that’s easier said than done. Suggestions?