Ever wonder why us?

Hey everyone,

Haven’t posted in quite a while as needed time away, a lot has changed since I first started on this app.. we’ve been trying over 3 years now with no success at all☹️ Me and my oh had our tests mine have all been ok and we got his results back 2 years ago and when we went to the doctor she told us they weren’t perfect but not bad enough to stop us conceiving naturally but she referred us to the fertility clinic at the hospital anyway. The few months went by before we went to the hospital when we finally got the appointment the specialist told us that in fact the doctor was completely wrong and that his results were very low estimating around 8mil count and his Motility and morphology were also very low and our best option was ivf, bare in mind we weren’t expecting this at all and were only 20 years old at the time so of corse a lot to take in, fast forward 2 years we’ve seen fertility doctors who put me forward for loads of tests and told us we can’t have IVF until I lose more weight (around 2 and half stone more to go now) luckily we will get one round paid for by the NHS. Even still I think there is always hope that we can conceive naturally and we won’t give up but it’s days like this when more people around me are getting pregnant so easily just like we all wish for (I’m so happy for them but I also wish it could be us too) it’s a long hard road infertility and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy! What’s all of your stories whether your still on your journey or whether you have had your happy ending☺️☺️ Can anyone give me any hope of having our own family? Whether you miraculously conceived naturally or by assisted fertility? I need some happy stories!❤️❤️❤️❤️