Should I have anal?

Question

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we havnt had sex. I can’t lose my virginity, since I’m middle eastern and it’s our beliefs. The problem is he wants to have sex. And he’s been waiting for so long. I’m scared he will leave to satisfy his needs. We had oral once and I’m thinking of having anal with him. I won’t lose my virginity with anal. Does it hurt? Does it feel good? What if he doesn’t want anal and he wants vaginal? We’re 16

Answer

No. 
1. You are 16
2. If he leaves you to "satisfy his needs" elsewhere then he is an asshole and you are better off without him anyways. Someone who truly loved you and cared about you would respect your beliefs, and your body. 
3. I don't know what your religion is (and I don't know how devoted you are yourself, or if it's more of something your family wants for you) but I can guess that if you went to one of your religious leaders - who says it's not okay to have sex - and you said "what about anal?"... they would probably tell you that's not okay either.

Answer

Do YOU want to have sex or are you just doing this to please this boy? Remember boys are REPLACEABLE

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having any type of sex is sex. oral sex, vaginal sex and anal sex are all SEX.

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No. You should never sacrifice your morals to keep a man from leaving you. If he can’t respect your boundaries then he doesn’t deserve a space in your life. I know it’s hard to see in the moment but there are so many men in the world who will value you and the things that are important to you. 
Side note: I lost my virginity at 14 because I though it was what you are supposed to do in a relationship. No surprise he still left me. It wasn’t until I met my husband at 27 and he was still a virgin that I wished I’d have a little more self worth and not let other men take advantage of me

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If he loves you he will respect your wishes and not pressure you to have sex. In my opinion, anal is sex. Also in my opinion, 7 months isn't "so long". Will you regret having a form of sex if the two of you break up?

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I don’t think you should. Only do something if YOU want to and are 100% comfortable. It doesn’t sound like it’s either to me.

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