Being a virgin in 2017???

Why do guys not like virgins? I mean whenever I talk to a guy and I tell him I’m a virgin he has this “Eh” kinda reaction you know what I mean... and sometimes I even get rejected because of that. I have done other things and I’m 19 I think I’m very in touch with my sexuality I feel very comfortable with my body and know what I like and don’t like, so what’s the big deal? I just choose not to have sex with any guy it’s just my preference to want to be with someone I can totally trust. Is it really that bad to be a virgin in 2017? 😔