Singe/dating adults?? How soon do you introduce new partner!

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My son met my husband when we were just friends so when we started dating it seemed ridiculous to not let them see each other. We moved in with him six months later and after 15 years I’d say it went ok. Prior to this relationship I tried to not introduce anyone to my son, he did meet one other guy which also happened kind of organically when my son and the guy I was seeing ended up both stopping by my work at the same time.

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When you think that things are getting pretty serious. Maybe after three months, if you feel like things are getting serious then, or it could be substantially longer. 6 months to a year perhaps? Definitely don't wait until you have a ring... if you're going to marry someone, you need to introduce them to your children, because they both need time to get to know one another, and that can be very helpful to you in determining whether or not, they're the one for you or not. You can observe them together, see how they relate to one another, how he/she disciplines your children, are they fair, or are they mean and hateful towards your children? That would be a red flag IMO and a good sign that it's probably not gonna be a good idea to marry them. So... definitely before you say yes, and definitely when things start getting  serious, as in you two are dating each other exclusively, and you realize the relationship has the potential to actually go somewhere. If you're just having fun and messing around though... refrain from introducing your kids...

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I met my husband and 2 - 2 1/2 months later he met my son. My son was 4 months old. He met my son for maybe 10 minutes then I left. I had 0 trust in anyone. But I let my guard down and let him be around my son more as I felt comfortable and the relationship grew stronger. We moved in his house when my son was around 8-9 months old. We are now married and my son is turning 2. They are inseparable.

Singe/dating adults?? How soon do you introduce new partner!

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