Well my husband of 3 years cheated on me with a 19 year old girl and got her pregnant on purpose he told me that he doesn't love me no more and that he was to be with her and that he loves his girlfriend and I am like I not going to give up that easy because I took a vow and she found out about us still being together but she thinks I am ling because of what he is telling her then they get into it and the back together again and then my husband tells me he wants to be with us both and if he can bring her to live with us and I said ok but she was like no then she decided to go to Minnesota to her mom and he was back home she left September 15th and I guess they met in June so me and my husband talk and he says he is willing to work on our marriage so like ok well he tell me like 4 days before Halloween that he is going to go to San Francisco to work and I was like ok because he would be gone only 4 or 5 days so he leaves that morning and well he is calling me and stuff well he is is suppose to be coming back by Sunday well he calls me and tells me that he won't be back until like Tuesday so ok well for some reason something comes in the mail for her so I text her and tell to stop having mail come to me and my husband house and this is Monday after and she text me telling me that he is her man and that I a.m. delusional and they are together and I am like yeah right but she sends me a picture and a video of them together and in the pic and video it's him and he got her name on him so I call him and he tells me that she is far then I tell him you are a liar because she sent me the picture and I just hang up well he calls me the next day and I tell him why you got to play games and lie that he doesn't have no well it's been 2 weeks and 2 days and he has not come home but he came twice the first time for like 20 minutes and the second time for an hour because he had to tell me he lost his phone so ok well she is leaving today again I guess and he is like I am going to be there soon and a part of me is like on thank God but another part is like I don't want him to come back because why he has not helped me out since he has been gone with our boys when he left he gave me 40 $ and nothing since he spent it on her I guess so I don't know what to do I am lost and heart broken but I love this man with everything in me