I need some advice girls!!!

So about almost 2 months ago I moved out of my parents house due to some conflicts and I moved in with my fiancé and his family. Well, even though I use to see them all the time I’m not full out comfortable living with them yet. I don’t get to see my fiancé as much as I’d like because he works day shift and I work night shifts so our schedules don’t work together. I spend about an hour or two with him everyday Monday through Friday before I go to work. Ive suffered from depression and anxiety for a while now. So I don’t like being alone it just makes me be all in my feelings and in my head. I decided to tell my fiancé that I wanted a pet my original idea was to get a dog or a cat, but I ended up getting a little Guinea Pig well I knew my fiancé’s sister was allergic to some cats and dogs, but she starts flipping out because we got this Guinea Pig. When we got home my brother in law starts talking about how she’s really mad because I got it and how she’s allergic to it, and how I could be spending my money some other way. I owed her 40 dollars because I borrowed some for a doctors appointment ( which I already had ready to pay her back that day) my brother in law starts talking about how his sister has noticed a few things about me that she doesn’t like he said because I don’t help my mother in law at all, that I leave her all my dirty dishes, and so on. Well at this point I’m mad and I tend to cry when I’m upset I told my fiancé I didn’t want to live here anymore, because my sister in law is never home she’s always at work or out partying and she doesn’t see anything. So why comment or complain about something she isn’t fully aware of. Plus, I work my ass off because I’m a certified nurse assistant and I work at a long term care facility for MY money so it shouldn’t matter how I spend it. Well I guess she realized she exaggerated too much and she apologized and she isn’t allergic to my Guinea Pig.

Situation number 2: how me and my fiancé’s work schedule makes it to where we don’t really see each other. The little time I have with him I like to enjoy. Well as of lately I feel rejected because those 2 hours we gets he’ll either spend time playing video games or having his brother or anyone else in the room. We haven’t had any intimacy in about 2 weeks and it’s killing me! I put myself out there for him I tell him I’m craving him and basically just letting him know I want to make love, but he finds a way to just not do it. Wednesday’s he’ll get off of work early and my mother in law takes care of his niece well guess who’s the center of his eyes... yup her. It’s just hurtful that I feel like he puts them first and me aside. I don’t have any relationship with my family due to me moving out they don’t want anything to do with me and he knows that it’s hard.

It’s like today usually when I ask him for a favor or if we can go do something he always finds a reason for us not to do it or for him to get out from doing it. Well him and his sister work together, and they go out for lunch all the time. Which I don’t really care about. It’s like this morning I was offering to take him breakfast or on his lunch break some lunch because I get out of work at 7 am and he kept on denying it from me. And just with his sister telling him he went like nothing... and I got offended and I told him “if only you did things that fast for me.” And now he’s upset... I don’t know what to do anymore I love him so much but I hate feeling so unimportant to him all the time now..