husbands with autism

So I am almost 2 years in our marriage and I know my husband has quirks, just like anyone else and i married him knowing he had quirks. Last night he was researching autism and noticed that he has a lot of similar traits. he is not diagnosed, but he wants to at least go to a doctor and take a test to see if he is on the spectrum. he was sending me articles and to be honest it's uncanny how much he resembles the traits. for the longest time, I thought he was just emotionally detached to people and rude, or lazy, or doing things purposely to drive me crazy. if he does end of having autism, he obviously is a high functioning one. I did a lot of research myself, and turns out it's common for people to go through their life without being diagnosed and be on the spectrum, to get married and have kids and never know. this does not change how I feel about him at all. I married him knowing his personality and quirks, this just helps me to see that he's not doing some things because he's mean, but because he doesn't understand some social ques. and if he's not on the spectrum then I at least can show a little more patience with him. Anyone on here who has a SO with autism? I'd like to hear experiences with autism, even if its not your SO. what I don't want to hear is rude comments please.