Is there anything I can do about my lack of sex drive?

Question

27YO. 
- Never had an orgasm. 
- Honestly I’d be happy to never have sex again. 
- Only had sex twice in about 4 years. 
- Never get into it, it’s boring. 
Is there something wrong with me?
Is there anything a doctor or medication could do?

Answer

You could be asexual. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong but you could always ask a doctor if you're worried.

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Also could be the partner. I have a few girlfriends who are very concerned about being asexual but I’m pretty convinced it’s mostly they’ve never been w a good partner or someone they are actually into. In other words, they’ve dated primarily losers who I wouldn’t blame them for being not into (and I’m very generous on who someone can be into - I’m into a lot of nice guys who aren’t that handsome). But I think that plus some desperation gets their sex drive low and makes them think they will never be interested in sex. I think they would be w someone who they actually like and are attracted to. I also think it improves w time when a partner learns you over time... so if you haven’t been w anyone who really loves you for months and months to learn from each other, it probably wont be as good as it could be

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Are you on any medication? Antidepressants and birth control for example can affect sex drive. OR have you ever considered that you may be asexual? I know very little about it but that could be your answer! If not, it’s definitely worth talking to a doctor about.

Is there anything I can do about my lack of sex drive?

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