so long story short, I got married 2 months ago. my husband literally did a 360 in personality the day after the wedding. hes mean, he yells and swears at me, blows up at the littlest things, acts like I'm his maid. I am a step mom to his daughter and he doesnt help me with her at all. im a stay at home mom. i also have a son of my own. I am with both of our 3 year olds all day long. he comes home from work and expects to have dinner ready and the house meticulous. he comes home anf plays on his phone for hours. if i bring up anything I want to discuss, I get yelled at and told that he does certain things because of me. that its my fault that he is the way he is now. anyways.... he is so mean to me that i feel like my love for him is already basically gone. im so depressed and so sad that my family put in so much money and time into our wedding for me to just get divorced. he wont even go to marriage counseling. im afraid if I get a divorce everyone will think im a joke and I'll be the talk of the town for divorcing so soon after getting married. would you stay with someone like him?