Am I being unreasonable?

Joanne • Angel, twin angels, with a forth, fifth and sixth angel. Rainbow boy came 7/2/20- #2 is on the way due 11/22/21

I am a funeral director, so I work 8.5 hours on weekdays and 4 hours on Saturdays. If we have calling hours or a death after the normal work hours we just have to work extra hours. I'm also on call every day except 8 days a month. My husband works 4 hours a day Monday-Friday. He just changed jobs in September. I asked that he put in a few hours a week around the house, so its not all on me. He was fuerious, that I suggested this. I will admit I am not the best house keeper, especially after I work a few 12 hour days in a row. Am I being unreasonable to suggest that he helps me around the house?