So yesterday at my docs appt I was told that baby head is up and that she is breach , doctor told me he will schedule me for EVC at the hospital , as he’s explaining to me I literally stared crying because I had a different plan! I know that what’s important is my baby health but I reallllllly didn’t want Csection . Anyway I made peace with it as I got home but now looking at the procedure I’m not liking it ! I heard it’s very painful from a friend that had it done and she still need it to have a emergency csection that day because baby heart was in distress ! My question is can I refuse this? He didn’t really ask me if I want it . Or maybe he did I was crying and not even listening 🙄 did any of you mommies go through this? Any input would be helpful 🙏🏻