Me and my ex boyfriend recently broke up, well his reason was that i was clingy and i wouldn’t let him help his friend and i acted like his ex wife and we moved on to fast.

First of all technically he is still married to his ex wife because she is refuse to sign the divorce papers and he has to pay her $800 a month or when he gets paid his in the military btw okay done with that part.

Second of all, he was helping this girl with a baby out by giving her money every time she asked and i simply had an opinion saying like i get that she’s your friend but tell her she needs to try to get a job and not always relied on you for money especially when you have to give your ex wife money like just try to save that’s all i said to him.

And i was clingy towards him becaise like he was never hime at all not cause of his job he would never be home which i didn’t care about because i wanted him to hang out with his friends you know. And after we broke up i just miss him and i want to text him to see if we could work things out But idk i really like this kid and he needs someone to help out I’ll take being friends with him ugh idk what to do