my ex's family is throwing a baby shower for him. it's been optional for me to go since the start. me and him are not on speaking terms, and he has not been involved with our growing offspring since I got pregnant. he said some very hurtful things a few weeks ago, and he told me not to text him about anything until our child makes his arrival. his family sent out the invites, and I got mine.... I don't know if I should go or not. I like his family, but I can live without seeing him right now.