We had a photo shoot for xmas cards to also announce our pregnancy, with the holidays coming, my husband wanted to hand them out in person. The problem is- my grandmothers Christmas and my parents get together is one weekend, my in-laws is two weeks after that.

My extended family sucks at keeping secrets, and my in laws are suuper sensitive about this crap.. they were all pissed last time because his grandparents found out before my husband called them.

If they find out from another source.. tears. And drama.

I don't have patience for that drama so best to avoid..

So should we wait until early January to send out xmas cards to extended family and stay quiet during the big xmas party?

Ill also add I have an autistic cousin that has a 6th sense about pregnancy.. like she's amazing and she just knows. So the likelyhood that she will blow my cover is a good 80/20.

I can't find a way to stay out of trouble here.. halp