Does he sound suspicious..?
My bf is sounding suspicious but I really don't want to go into bad thoughts or think the worse..it took me a long time to trust him after being in relationships that were bad for me so I don't know if I am just being unfair or maybe I should be on the lookout for something. well I can't really remember exactly what day it started. (I'm about 28 weeks pregnant) and iv been having problems while tryin to urinate. at first I thought it would go away but it wasn't. it would bother me to pee, when it comes out I just feel so uncomfortable. it doesn't burn but I guess now it's itching abit? no thing drastically but yeah. iv never had a UTI but Iv read its normal to have them. I searched online to find answers and made an appointment. I started bringing this up to my bf laughing about saying "my coochie has been bothering me while I pee" he didn't really have any answers to give me because he was clueless. well things started to get worse I guess? I started discharging everyday which wasn't normal for me. and the discharge now has a odd funky odor. I use to be able to skip a day to shower but now it's like I have to. My appointment was on Wednesday and my midwife told me that discharge in pregnancy was normal but I was still feeling unsastified with my concerns. My bf was there at my app and was hearing all my symptoms I was telling my midwife and they gave me a cup to pee in so they can test me to see if it's a UTI. I felt so uncomfortable and ashamed even tho I know this was normal I just felt weird . they told me my results might come in Friday and to check my email. So today (Friday) my bf randomly just asks "so have you gotten your results back?" "what does it say?" I tell him I haven't (since iv been on it) and he replies saying I was suppose to know today. he starts asking how does a girl get a UTI and starts asking questions. My bf has never been one to ask or care or remember anything I say. even about any of my appointments so it was weird that he remember and bought it up its like he was just waiting on this day to ask me. well he went to work and he picked me up later that night and asked AGAIN about the results if I had checked to see. I which reply "wow your really concern with the results but when I had pelvic pain you wouldn't even remember or bother to ask about that" he laughs and says hes proud of finally remembering something. that he was just curious to know. I ask why again and why was it such a huge concern for him, if it was a uti then i get antibiotics and that's it just like I told him that morning. I then ask him seriously if I should be worried about something if he's ever done something stupid behind my back and he takes it like a joke saying he's done alot of stupid stuff but nothing like what I have on mind. So I drop it but I find it weird and odd that hes thinking about it as much as I am. if I know my bf pretty well he would just forgotten about this already and not bother asking. we aslo have NOT been having sex the last time we did it was because I woke him up to have it, and that literally only lasted a minute because he was done quick. but he hasn't approached me with sex which is really weird because it's been awhile. he's been working/ gotten sick and we have a 14 month old so I keep thinking we're just tired or 'hes just tired' or we don't have time. any thoughts or advice?? has this ever happen to anyone?
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