Acceptable or not?!

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In summary: SO is seriously into electronics/gaming/computers/toys (really)/graphic tees. 
We are moving into a new place that has sufficient space for us- if we share. He wants a man cave and is resentful if I use it for OUR baby's nursery (due in a few months). So I told him to have it to keep all his controls and cables and clutter from being spread throughout the house. 
Next, the garage is "his" space so I can't use it to store OUR things and de clutter the house. Not even parking my car. 
Finally, I am starting school and need a desk so I can put my laptop and work from. Well his desk is taking up space in the master with his computer and all his electronics (I can't touch it either). That's not even all of it. I have to ask him about any decorations I want to place in the house so he doesn't feel like he has no say. 
I have a high risk pregnancy and all I get is stress. I can't say I find the counseling effective (as I'm still getting yelled and even cursed at sometimes) and I resent him more and more each day. I hate the fact that he will put cartoons and games and the computer before me- even his friends have more of a say than I do. 
Could use sound advice!

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I kinda hate him. What a spoiled child.

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Sounds like he needs to grow up and accept responsibility!

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Wow! Ok, first off he should be grateful you even breathed his way let alone stay & put up with his childishness! You are strong and because you are strong you need to do what is best for the well being of your child. It's one thing for you to put up with his behavior but it's another for the child to have to witness and endure it. You seem more focused and worried about your child's future than he does since you're NEEDING the space for work/school, while he WANTS the space for his "toys". And the fact that his friends have more of a say than the MOTHER OF HIS CHILD says a lot about him, like he has no respect for you & doesn't care if his friends do either. You don't need him. If he really wanted to change he would & counseling won't help if he truly doesn't care to put forth the effort. I don't even know you but it upsets me that he treats you this way. Praying for you guys and that beautiful baby on the way!

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He sounds controlling and that is not acceptable. Stand up for yourself girl!

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Leave.

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Bern there, done that, multiple times, RUN!

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Tell him he needs to man up! He's going to be a father, you do not need to care for a baby and a man-child also. The fact he needs a 'man cave' is BS. He should be supporting you, helping you to make your house into a home for his new family.

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Omg what an asshole!!! How did you get with him and stayed with him??? Girl I have no idea other then to really bitch and nag and tell him how selfish he is being... Cuz that is like really selfish all around.. It's y'all's home not just his.. He needs to realize y'all are a family and sounds like he has a man cave in the garage and needs to make it more roomie for his stuff, ( or spend some money in making it a room instead of a garage.. He don't need two man caves.

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he sounds very controlling...that's not something you can fix.

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Make him realise his ways n leave.. maybe he'll change?

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