I’ve been having sex 5-7 times a week for the last month, and everything was great until my vagina started feeling like it’s chafing even when I have more than enough lube. So after sex last night I told my partner that we need to take a little break and he was perfectly fine with that. But just now I was in the shower and I felt a painful lump to my right side of my vagina. It’s about the size of a chick pea or pinto bean and right underneath my right inner labia. It hurts like crazy!! Do y’all think it’s just a swollen lymph node from too much sex or something else?

Sorry for the gross picture