Okay so my boyfriend is currently fighting for full custody of his little girl (she’s 3 almost) and it’s because of how her mother has treated her and looks like no matter where his kid goes the mom will never see them again ANYWAY so if she comes home he has a 5 day 9-5 job a week, he expects me to look after her and pretty much raise her, baring in mind I lost a baby in June at 18 weeks so it’s still really hard for me so we argued the other day and he said “well she isn’t yours” like I get that but then I said “well if you want me to raise her she might as well be and if you don’t like it leave!” Yes she is not biologically mine but she will be pretty much raised by me I will put my love, care and all my strength into raising this little girl with him for the rest of her life he doesn’t know the first thing about being a dad or about having a girl!, she calls me mummy cause I’m all she’s ever known, I go to every meet, every contact I go to every court date, I show up! It gets thrown in my face all the time! Am I awful in what I was saying in reply to him?!