Ive been together with this man for 3 yrs but ive been having to keep it secret from my mother. shes very expectational and wants me to find a lawyer or doctor. I had jus finished nursing school and hes currently thinking bout enrolling into college for buisness. early this year I told my mother i had been with him but she didnt acknowledge i was dating him til i told her i was pregnant. im stilling living at home. my SO and i both worked at walmart and when i became pregnant he lost his job. i had a miscarriage at 8 weeks and he couldnt find a job. i left my job bc i couldnt stand people asking bout my loss. my mother talked me into leaving him eventho i deep down didnt want to but i were to stay home i had to leave him. i came back into his life and hes working now at a factory $15 an hour and on an amazing track in life my mom and him just dont get along. should i rlly take into consideration her opinion? or is it my life and my decision? what would you do?