Taking long

I know it’s not that long (Been ttc for 5 months) but I read these posts about women who had MC’s and then tried again ASAP and get pregnant right away.. I’m happy for them, but at the same point it’s almost frustrating because they don’t even know what it’s like to try Month after month and get negatives.. I had my miscarriage Jan 2017 and now it’s November and I’m still not pregnant 😩 please tell me I’m not the only one that feels like this..