My husband stared at waitresses and flat out told me it was because they look good. Would your feelings be hurt?

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I'm 18 weeks pregnant with our second child and we were out to eat and I asked him why he kept staring at every waitress that passed (their uniform was a tank and short shorts) and he flat out said "they look good" while watching her walk away.  I laughed it off at the time but now I'm trying to sleep and it's really getting to me.  I feel hurt.  Would you feel hurt?

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Nah mate. That’s messed up. Looking happens, but creepily staring that long and admitting it is a dick move.

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Nope. My husband is allowed to look, he just cant touch. I check out men, so why should I expect him to not check out women?

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my husband and I point out attractive people to each other so it's not out of the ordinary for us. So it wouldn't bother me. But if he did, he wouldn't do it. So just tell your partner it upset you. Communicate

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Absolutely. That's a dick move and I'd be speaking to my partner about it 🙅

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My hubby and I actively point out attractive people. If someone looks good, they look good. I'd like to think I look good to a random stranger too, but if it makes you upset then talk to him about it.

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If mine did how yours did and in that setting, It’d sting a bit. We’ve always looked at people passing by and appreciate nice looking people but gawking and being a jerk like that is different. It’s rude to you and in your state where you may not be feeling like yourself as well as the waitress he did it to. It may be better to let him know how it made you feel.

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I would ask him which one we were taking home. 
You didn't like it, but you laughed it off. Now he will think that his behavior was ok. If he does something that you are uncomfortable with, communicate that with him.

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he can look, but don't touch.

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Of course, he should respect you, your carrying his second child, he can look but not that long to were it's obvious, I'd be uncomfortable if my man did that! I'd be like no!

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Were you at Hooters???

My husband stared at waitresses and flat out told me it was because they look good. Would your feelings be hurt?

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