Riding dick 🍆

So I recently lost my virginity, we've done it twice since the first time and both times I got on top for a bit... but I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! 😂😂 I tried sitting up and riding him up and down but I kinda felt embarrassed and then his dick fell out and the condom came off and it was real awkward so he got back on top 😂 and I've tried getting on top and having my head next to his and just moving up and down but idk if it does anything for guys?! It doesn't help that the only time he makes noise is when he cums so I don't know when I'm doing something right 😬