He hates me...

I am pretty sure my husband is growing to hate me. He pretty much doesn't want to be anywhere near me anymore. He even went to bed tonight without saying a word or giving me a hug or kiss... He never does that. Not in the 5 years we have been together. He really makes me hate myself lately and makes me feel like piece of shit with the way he talks to me. He makes me feel stupid just like my manager does. I told him what she said to me the other day and he actually agreed and defended what she said...