The father of my daughter has always been subpar. (forget to change her diaper for a whole day, drag her to his girlfriend's son's baseball games, hand her off to his parents, not taken her because he is sick or because she is sick, so on and so forth you get the picture.) Today he told he is moving almost 15 hours away and wants her for the summers. He doesn't take care of her and I have documentation to prove it. I'm stuck between not wanting to take away my daughter's opportunity to see her dad and being scared about her well being. His parents aren't moving with him, they are staying where they are now, which is like a half hour from where I live. I don't know what to do. Everyone who has seen the last 3 years unfold has been telling me for the last 2 years to take custody away (as if it were that easy). I feel like I'm the only trying to make sure she has her dad in her life. I'm not even sure it's worth it anymore and she would be better off with out him. All he has is visitations every other weekend, if he takes it. I just don't know how to handle this at all. 😢